My wife (“Hottie”) and I have been together for 21 years, married 19. I love her more than ever emotionally. And we’re more physically intimate than ever. What’s the secret?
- Every relationship is different. Prioritize what you feel is right for YOUR relationship and do not feel obligated listen to others, myself included.
- You both have to have confidence to be individuals, and respect for each other’s individuality.
There will be compromises on preferences and opinions, but you as a person can’t be a compromise. The two of you are only as strong as the each of you individually.
- Nothing matters.
Seriously. All the differences, none of them matter. You either want to be with someone forever, or you don’t. And if you do, all the small stuff in between doesn’t matter.
- Be affectionate.
Fall asleep holding hands. Wake up hugging. Have a lot of sex, in a lot of ways, in a lot of places. We’re never not touching when we’re in proximity of each other.
Be curious, find what you are both passionate about, and do it often.
